Why your social media marketing shouldnāt be like a Christmas present… Christmas has come and gone, the tree is away, and businesses are getting back into it. But customers are seeing the same old same old marketing. Itās like the businesses they follow are like some elderly Aunt who, with their heart in the right place, gives you the crappiest Christmas present that only they could possibly like.
What is Christmas Marketing?
You know the story. Youāve not since Aunt Mabel since last Christmas and once again youāve got the same present and itās precisely what Aunt Mabel would love to receive or would choose for herself. In fact, if you listened to the self-talk it would go something like this:
āIf I were little Johnny Iād love to receive a present like thisā.
Hereās the thing, most business social media markeitng is written with the same talk:
āIf I were little Johnny, Iād love to see/know about this.ā
Truth be told, little Johnny or Jenny, actually doesnāt like it because Aunt Mabel actually doesnāt take the time to listen to little Johnny and find out what they like and need. Aunt Mabel is so stuck in Aunt Mabel that she canāt see the needs of others around her.
Sound about right?
What’s wrong with Christmas Marketing?
Too often business social media marketing focuses on the message that the business wants to convey rather than what the client wants to hear. They assume that because they think itās brilliant news that everyone else will think the same too.
But like Johnny & Aunt Mabel, clients and businesses are at different stages in their life and have different pressures, needs, and expectations. Telling them what you want them to hear or what youād like to know doesnāt help them. (And therefore doesnāt help you)
Some businesses will tell you that so long as you know your avatar you are fine. Sure, but itās more than knowing their āvital statisticsā or demographics. If you actually want them to do something with your posts, to interact, engage, or click through and buy/book (all technically called engagement). Then you need to understand what makes them engage.
How to fix your Christmas Marketing!
A few years ago I wrote this blog and developed this handout on how to engage your audience online. I took some hard core research by psychologists and turned it into plain English steps. What it came down to, other than what businesses currently do of āgiving them an incentiveā and ātelling them to do somethingā, the big tip for engaging online was to āappeal to their self-imageā.
So donāt be an Aunt Mabel and appeal to your own self-image in your marketing. Appeal to what your audience actually tells you what they want for Christmas (or any time of year). Youāll find out how in the download.

